"He Ordered Pu-erh on Our First Date—Now We Share a Tea Cabinet"

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In the world of modern dating algorithms, I never expected a tea order to be the ultimate compatibility test. At Tea Teapot, I share how my husband's unexpected choice of aged pu-erh at a Shanghai相亲 (xiāngqīn) session revealed everything about his character—and why tea prefer

The Tea Date That Changed Everything

His Fateful Order:
✓ 1999 Menghai ripe pu-erh (showed patience)
✓ Asked to smell the dry leaves first (attention to detail)
✓ Insisted on sharing one cup (old-school romance)

My Internal Monologue:

  • "Who orders fermented tea on a first date?"

  • "He's either pretentious or the one..."

  • "Wait—he's pouring for me first?"

Try the exact 1999 Menghai Love Potion that started it all

3 Ways Tea Predicts Relationship Success

  1. Brewing Temperament

  • Rushed steeping = impatient partner

  • Multiple infusions = long-term mindset

  1. Leaf Choices

  • Green tea = straightforward but bland

  • Oolong = complex but worth the work

  • Pu-erh = mysterious depth (our winner)

  1. Pouring Etiquette

  • Never overfilling = respect for boundaries

  • Warming cups first = thoughtful forethought

Our Tea-Infused Marriage

Wedding Favors:

  • Mini pu-erh cakes stamped with our date

  • "Steeped in Love" brewing guides

Anniversary Tradition:

  • Revisiting that teahouse annually

  • Buying a new vintage pu-erh to age together

Start your own tradition with our Couples' Tea Ritual Set

Why Tea Beats Dinner Dates

• Silence feels natural (no awkward small talk)
• Observing tea handling reveals true nature
• Sharing one pot builds intimacy faster

At Tea Teapot, we've witnessed countless connections steep over shared cups—because nothing tests compatibility quite like witnessing someone's tea ceremony manners. As my husband says: "We didn't fall in love—we brewed into it, slowly and deeply."

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